We all love to dwell in the world of our sexual fantasies…

Your fantasy obviously revolves most often around female dominance and male submission! I’m no medium and yet I can tell, that in your dreams everything fits into place to give you the ultimate satisfaction. Your humiliation is deep and intense, your Domme is the perfect combination of beauty, dominance and ingenious kinkiness. But what happens when you venture into the reality? This is another in a row of introductory articles that will cover various intriguing aspects of finding a Femdom Mistress, before you delve into the Dominatrix dating sites. If you wish to find a Mistress of your dreams and come to enjoy the deep satisfaction of a full-fledged real life Femdom, it is a must read.

Treat Her Like a Human Being

Do you realise, that Dominant Women did not arrive in a flying pan from another galaxy with a flash of green light? Really? That’s weird, because a staggeringly large number of subs and slaves behave just as if they thought precisely that! Dommes are first and foremost women and as such they have certain characteristics. Such as: wanting to hang around with guys, who are attentive, clever and kind. Start with being a guy, every woman would like to associate with. A guy, who remembers Her favourite brand of chocolate, a guy whose life’s purpose is to make Her happy. The additional D/s layer you need to incorporate: be the sub, who perceives Her with respect, proper to their Dominant status, but who does not fail to treat them not as a sexual object (albeit Dominant), but as a potential partner.

Behave with Integrity

Yeah, I know it sounds so boring you would scream. Nevertheless, I can assure you, that this is one of the most common areas slaves and subs fail in. The internet has the infamous ability to turn polite and well-mannered people into crude and impolite herd. The perceived anonymity gives us freedom to behave like jerks. If you are serious about attracting a female looking for a submissive male, you should take care to be polite, well-mannered at all times, especially in the social sites and forums. You never know, where your former sins might resurface. Be honest, truthful, attentive to others. Simply, try to be your best self. Your future Mistress seeks and demands a sub, who has personal integrity, character and good manners.

Build a Personal Brand!

Now I virtually slap your cheek with my glove. Now, that should do. Are you with me now, alert and focused? If you want to turn your dreams into reality, you must first learn to operate in that reality. You must determine clearly, what you are offering and be mature enough to realize, what belongs to the realm of dreams and what of your kinks and desires you actually can succeed with. I will use a parable to explain. Imagine you are a talented artist and wish to make a living of your art. It is fairly difficult, because there is so many talented and ambitious artists around. If you want to succeed, you need to build a reputable brand about yourself and – importantly – learn what touches your audience. You will not and cannot succeed, if you will deliberately and obstinately create art, that does not resonate with your audience. Your case is similar. If you are to attract a dominant female, you need to create an intelligible “personal brand”, be clear on what you can offer and present attributes and skills that are aligned with characteristics dominant women require.

In the Intermediate Course of the University of Slavery and Servitude I teach you, how to use your individual slave personality to your advantage. I help you to create slave identity, that will be appealing to your prospective owner. You learn, what will repel dominant Ladies in the initial stages of communication with a prospective slave, and how you should behave instead. I will teach you how to gain your Mistress‘ trust and earn it too!

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