The Real Life Femdom: 12 Years a Slave to Emma! The Male Chastity Experience
Introduction
I am a submissive male living in a female led relationship for more than 12 years. My Mistress, beloved and revered is PhDomme Emma herself! Because male chastity is an essential part in our D/s relationship, my Lady instructed me to write this blog entry. I will gladly shared with you my insights on male chastity experience. This is the first part of two parts series.
With my Mistress’ kind permission I may present my views and experiences as a slave. All my writing is based on my own real Femdom experiences. As with all other topics in our life any person may have it’s specific opinion and I am not at all telling you what is right or wrong. Everyone will have different experiences and a different perspective. For myself I can say that male chastity is an inherent part of a female led relationship. It’s consequent female control over the male sexuality.
From interviews I have learned that male chastity can even improve relationships which are not straight D/s oriented. In these cases male chastity is seen merely as a variation in their sexual life. Many non-dominant women reported that the introduction of male chastity in their relationship has improved their male’s behavior significantly. They report that their chaste partner starts to behave like he did at the very beginning of their partnership. Being attentive, volunteering domestic tasks, preparing gifts and having a much higher desire for his one and only woman. The woman holding the key to his sexuality is the ultimate subject of their erotic desire and they constantly feel their subjection. Their sexual release completely depends on the will of their owner.
The Ultimate Satisfaction
There are many ways to consider male chastity. For some it’s exciting to use a chastity device as a prelude to intercourse. Some use it to suppress the unpleasant parts of their masculinity which is favored by Feminists, etc.
Here I will mainly write about male chastity based on completely handing over my sexuality to my beloved Mistress. For the enjoyment of both, to improve my service and for the perfect satisfaction of my Lady. My basic attitude has to be submissive in sex and willing to give up my own pleasures for my Lady. A man with this attitude will experience the real fulfillment of his inner needs only if he is allowed to realize himself in the service of his Goddess. What is the key tenet? Your satisfaction is directly linked to the knowledge that you have given perfect pleasure to your Lady. Even if that means to be deprived of your own satisfaction.
Male Chastity – The Real Thing
The basic concept is the fact that sex for a D/s couple solely serves the sexual satisfaction of the woman. Sex is solely determined by the woman’s wishes and her orgasm. The male’s penis and his orgasm are irrelevant. This perception reduces the penis to a tool which is used by the woman to control him. This is the core of the male chastity experience!
Men who voluntarily choose this way of life have to accept that even in times of strongest excitement they must not seek their own sexual satisfaction as an orgasm. The accumulated energy, the desire for satisfaction and the strong excitement are only used for servicing their Lady. This imposed chastity will provide lasting inner fulfillment.
As I mentioned, chastity is not based on usage of a physical device, but rather in your mind. It’s the sincere decision to give up your own sexual satisfaction in favor of a loved and adored woman. Both partners on a female dominated relationship share the same goals – to gradually train the man to become a perfect and completely obedient slave.
His erotic excitement should not be suppressed, but stimulated to the maximum extent and kept there for a prolonged time period. As I wrote, the built up energy and the slave’s desires should be used for the benefit of the woman.
Interested in the Female led relationships and real life Femdom? Check also:
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