A Real Life Femdom Mistress Secrets – An Honest Interview with PhDomme Emma.

Are you interested in a life perspective of a non-professional, real life Femdom Mistress? Of course you are! Today I bring to you an interview I have done with my faithful servant truesub. You will learn how I got interested in BDSM, why every woman has the power to turn her boyfriend into her sub and what methods I employ to keep my D/s female led relationship in top form.

How did You get interested in BDSM?

I remember being interested since forever. In the D/s dynamics most definitely. I remember being bossy to the little boys in the kindergarten, which obviously did not change in the years to come… They had to bring me toys and sweets. (laugh) I have to admit that growing up and knowing I am a Princess the timid boys are always eager to serve, was with me automatically. It was probably brought about by my privileged upbringing. I considered it a plain fact, I’m to be served. When the universe of SM opened to me in my teenage years, I was in heaven. I acquired whole array of skills and could expand and cultivate my dominant personality. My character and charisma is such, I can subordinate men to my will under any circumstances, regardless whether they are openly submissive or not.

You mean, you can turn regular vanilla man into your submissive or a slave?

This all comes down to understanding one key principle. There are natural born men, who have submissive inclinations, or kinky fantasies ever since childhood. These are obviously the easiest adepts on sub to slave conversion. The other group of men is far from being sexually submissive, but they all feel the powerful attraction of my personality. All men are essentially very eager to serve women, because they desire the sexual interaction. As such, with proper handling, any man can be turned into dependable and useful servant. Any woman can do this!

You suggest, any woman can turn her boyfriend or husband into her submissive?

Absolutely, although I don’t intend to claim, that all men are “convertible” into slaves. I just mean that every woman has the power to make her man into an attentive and subservient man, purely by using the power of her sexuality. That is the true superpower every woman has and so many don’t care to employ it in their own interest. I myself am the living proof of this principle. I succeeded many times even with men, who proclaimed themselves as very dominant – simply by being a charming, smart, confident woman I am. So many men will consider themselves happiest on earth, being able to serve such a woman. The more unattainable she is the better! Sadly, the current state of society teaches women to challenge men in areas they can never conquer, instead of showing them how to rule from the position of their greatest power. It teaches women promiscuity instead of teaching them how to guard their virtue and use it in their own interest.

You are in a female led relationship.  Can You tell us what that involves in terms of level of control of Your slave, rules, limits, rewards and punishments?

Certainly. I believe in FLR and female led household is one of the greatest manifestations of this lifestyle. The point is to free a woman of all those humiliating tasks – doing laundry, loading the dishwasher, cleaning bathroom etc. Also the effect over the slave is simply amazing, as it helps him understand his position as a servant and sub to my superior person. The control is total and I am very demanding Mistress. He has a set of rules he needs to abide by. The most powerful tool I have over him and his performance is the orgasm denial and permanent chastity. In order to keep him in superb health, I perform milking every 14 days. He is forbidden any orgasm. That seems harsh, but my slave is the happiest, when his submissivity is high. When he has his climax, his subordination weakens and that is a totally undesirable effect!

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